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A little over a year ago i told my wife how my fantasy was to see her or have her fuck another man. As most women would react, she was a bit confused and thrown back by this. We decided to cool off on talking about it and didnt really bring it up for a while. I must have planted a seed though as every now and then we woukd bring it up just for fun. Fast forward to the other day, i am going down on my wife and as im sucking on her pussy she moans "baby i want a lover, im ready now". My dick went from semi to fully hard in about 2 seconds flat, lol. Before i would get turned on but then get worried/jealous at the thought of her with other men. Now though I feel completely happy and content with her decision.
 
You need to find a bull (like me, frankly) who's willing to go slow and be patient. Start out by sharing a few drinks in a bar with the stated intention of only getting acquainted the first time.

I'd start off with some casual flattery - telling her how pretty her smile is, complimenting her outfit or her hairstyle, and if she's wearing perfume, I'd tell her it's very alluring.

Then, if she reacts positively, move on to a little bit of casual touching in slightly private places - her thigh, but not near her crotch, her lower back, maybe touch her hair. If she's buying it, I like to make a trip to the men's room and when I come back, before sitting down, caress her shoulders, and if her body language is right, lean in and kiss her neck to break the ice. Not a real long kiss, but if she sighs a little, I'll follow that up with a sweet little whispered remark to make her feel wanted. For example, "no wonder your husband wants to share you - you're so incredibly sexy."

But I honestly think that's a good stopping point. It gives you a chance to see how you feel about another guy truly seducing your wife. Most likely they'll share a lingering kiss, too, before parting company and if that doesn't scare you off, you're ready for the main event.
 
bobloblaw100 said:
A little over a year ago I told my wife how my fantasy was to see her or have her fuck another man. Like most women, she was a bit confused and taken aback. We decided to cool off on talking about it, and didn't bring it up for a while.

That doesn't mean your wife wasn't thinking about it, though. The possibility of her fucking other men with your knowledge and approval would have been circulating in the back of her mind ever since you first suggested it...

bobloblaw100 said:
I must have planted a seed though as every now and then we would bring it up just for fun.

She would bring it up again, or you would bring it up again, or you would more-or-less alternate bringing it up again "just for fun"...? If the former or the latter, that would be more positive than if you-alone brought it up again from time-to-time, "just for fun"...

bobloblaw100 said:
Fast forward to the other day. I was going down on my wife...

Always a good thing to do...

bobloblaw100 said:
...and, as I was sucking her pussy, she moaned: "Baby, I want a lover, I'm ready now."

That was a very nice gift for your wife to give you. I don't suppose it was lost on you that she told you that when your mouth was full, so you couldn't reply (without ruining the moment)... and that she chose a time during sex with you in what can reasonably be described as a male-inferior position.

bobloblaw100 said:
My dick went from semi- to fully-hard in about 2 seconds flat.

Excellent. That was exactly the right response to show to your wife...

bobloblaw100 said:
Before, I would get turned-on but then get worried/jealous at the thought of her being with other men. Now, though, I feel completely happy and content with her decision.

Sounds good. You're a progressive married man with the right attitude toward keeping your wife sexually-satisfied.

What's the next step...?
 
Well Now!!! If this isn't a case of "Careful what You wish for, You might get it." You not going to get that thought out of her mind now that you put it there. With luck you'll get an understanding Bull. Or
 
Bobloblaw100, well you are slowly moving down the road many of us such as myself have traveled. I have had a similar situation to you - fantasized about my wife with another man; talked to her about it; and had her finally agree to try it. In our case we did have a "friendly bull" - an actual friend who we both knew. I also had a few doubts when it came down to it was actually going to happen - I think most of us do before the final step is taken. You may want to test the waters so to speak as has been suggested before the deed is actually done on your wife. You do need to understand that having planted the seed with her she may go through with it whether you decide you really want it to happen or not! That is a risk we all take when we ask our wives to try it with another man!
 
Bobloblaw,

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sybil279 said:
But I honestly think that's a good stopping point. It gives you a chance to see how you feel about another guy truly seducing your wife. Most likely they'll share a lingering kiss, too, before parting company and if that doesn't scare you off, you're ready for the main event.

Sybil has given you some good advice, IMO.

—Custer
 
Richie-The Hub said:
Bobloblaw100, well you are slowly moving down the road many of us such as myself have traveled. I have had a similar situation to you - fantasized about my wife with another man; talked to her about it; and had her finally agree to try it. In our case we did have a "friendly bull" - an actual friend who we both knew. I also had a few doubts when it came down to it was actually going to happen - I think most of us do before the final step is taken. You may want to test the waters so to speak as has been suggested before the deed is actually done on your wife. You do need to understand that having planted the seed with her she may go through with it whether you decide you really want it to happen or not! That is a risk we all take when we ask our wives to try it with another man!

Engaged couples have nervous doubts, but these pass - and the knot is tied, the sperm is sown, the baby appears, the bond is complete.

When the wedding vows are amended to allow a wife to share her pussy with two men (one her husband), she needs private time for each man, because she is "married to two men" and each has different needs.

She needs space to develop her "second marriage" so she can fully enjoy th emotions it brings. Weekends away, a honeymoon, anniversaries, birthdays.

If each "husband" respects her, she can share her pussy with several men and still look after her husband properly.
 
Well Damn. Planted a seed you did! (Yoda voice). The door is open, but still proceed with caution, planning and perhaps some ground rules. I would hate to see you posting a few months from now how your wife left you.
 

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